TALK

"sometimes, what a person needs is not a brilliant mind that speaks but a patient heart that listens."

KINDNESS and PATIENCE are virtues that will be considered part of each other. to be being patient is being kind but not the other way.

KINDNESS is how you care for other people and doing something good for them to make their lives better. PATIENCE is a commitment to the future, hope and trust, waiting without complaining and persevere to meet you goals.

everyday i have been sharing thoughts with different kind of people from different walks of life. i met kindness from half of the people i know. more of them thought they were as brilliant as the celebrities published in the book of WORLD's GENIUSES. they all thought that they could help you solve your problems from their so-called WORDS OF WISDOM.

there are leaders who forms a group, giving out speech, doing on-stage monologues, shouting to his attendees, exerts effort to show them he is God's medium (i am not against some religious leaders), and sometimes does miracles. but do they barely listen to each and all of their audiences problems? regardless of some financial matters, different kinds of problems could be asked from them, may it be heartaches or some other matters.

a man who speaks loud, scientific and error-free is a man who isn't brilliant enough. he tends not to control his voice's volume and makes it more louder and speaks boastfully where he seems like he is not talking to you but to the other people who could clearly hear him. yet he admits his brilliance. afterwards, he'll enumerate his achievements and his freedom to talk. a man who always uses "words of wisdom" though he isn't that wise enough.

the other is a man who is humble, illoric and dumb he may seem to others, unfortunate and not successful. someone who could speak like a bit louder from a whisper and has fear when he talks because he is afraid to commit mistakes. he talks in the nicest way, better than the so-called ETHICAL WAY, and suggests humbly. what's his advantage from the man above?

the man first mentioned talks from his experience while the second talks from his heart.

sometimes, it's nice to talk to an empty man than a man who knows nothing but himself. an empty man talks nicely and admits he knows nothing but could give you care, trust and love, a man who is satisfied with what he had and continues on dreaming his simple plans, a man who knows how to give importance to life rather than saying i want that and accepts pleasure.

in some sort of our lives' coming days, let's step down a single step and selflessly open our hearts to those who needs us.

BRILLIANCE is WISDOM if you TALK with your HEART and not with your false CONCLUSIONS.

(thanks to GREGEFEL for the quotes)