GET OVER

enumerations regarding affection, love and matters of the like were very rampant. various authors were so competent in providing psychological informations about how it is to be done and how to get over of it.

a topic that made me stuck on such site was purely about GETTING OVER THE PAST and FIND LOVE AGAIN, by

BOUNCEBACK STAFF. (this is a link)

HERE are some TIPS on how to properly handle the next love affair that you will encounter after an end with another.

1.

Don't compare future relationships to past loves: avoid setting and holding expectations for one person based on what you remember about another.

2.

Try not to spend all your time and effort attempting to replicate exactly what you had before. Everything and everyone is different - no two relationships will be the same.

3.

Remember the past for what it was - separate the thrill of love from what actually happened that caused the relationship to end.

4.

Don't be afraid that you'll never love again - which can be a self-fulfilling prophecy. You must be willing to let love in again and not shy away from it out of fear.

5.

Don't wallow in self-pity. It's simply not attractive to the world, and you never know when your next love may be watching.

6.

Take notice of patterns: qualities about yourself, your past partners, and the dynamics of your relationships so that you can prevent repeat mistakes in the choices you make.

FROGGY'S INSIGHT

for me, i should not take for granted what i had with the past. it somehow guides us from where we and our ex ended but as stated on no.1 comparison is a no no! in the first few days of break up, its hard to recover and you'll be locked up in total sadness, but at least somehow find a way to have time for yourself. talking with a friend will do and spend more time with your family. you'll somehow get over with it.

upon break up. don't be in a hurry on dating, enjoy the time being SINGLE AGAIN. find first the reasons on how you ended up and try to set qualities on who to love next.. that is being practical, nobody wants to cry every after break-ups. LOL

ending up or breaking up is not a FAILURE (that's what i learned from the author) rather it is another stage of growing up. learning who to love in the right place in the right time.

being in a relationship is not like just playing a FACEBOOK application, you'll get tired soon and new applications arrives, it needs to be anticipated as lifetime agreement.