8 DATE MISTAKES - WOMEN

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8 Dating Mistakes Even Smart Women Make

by: Brenda Della Casa (this is a link)

1. BEING TOO AVAILABLE

We’re not suggesting you play games, but we are telling you to indulge your passions and resist the urge to abandon your social circle every time your new man sends an invitation. The more you engage in and enjoy your life, the more he’ll work to be a part of it.

2. TRYING TO REHABILITATE A BAD BOY

Ending a relationship is rarely easy, and though flying solo might not be your long-term goal, being on your own is better than feeling alone in a relationship with someone who treats you poorly. Even when it might be tempting to give a toxic romance one more try, knowing when to cut your losses and move on leaves you available and baggage-free when the right guy comes along.

3. LOOKING FOR PERFECTION

Encouraging you to settle isn’t our style, but separating your desires from your deal-breakers can give your love life a major upgrade.

4. FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF

Resist the urge to bemoan your single status (which will only make him wonder why you find yourself such terrible company) and use this time to date yourself.

5. KNOWING HIS THREAD-COUNT BEFORE YOU KNOW HIS PHONE NUMBER

Getting it on with a sexy stranger is your natural-born right, but according to many guys, it can be the wrong move if you’re looking for long-term love.

6. BEING TOO SELFISH IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

One of the downsides of being independent is that it can lead to some self-absorbed tendencies—a huge turnoff for men looking for a serious relationship, says Ming Gregory, a professional matchmaker at Color Blind International Dating Service. So make sure you’re giving as much as you’re receiving in your next relationship. “A partnership involves two people who share mutual interests and mutually benefit one another,” she says. “It’s not just about what being with him can provide you; it’s about how you can come together to complement each other.”

7. BELIEVING IN THE ONE

Instead of convincing yourself the ex you dumped was your soul mate or that perfect-but-married co-worker was your one that got away, take a cue from our male counterparts and approach the dating scene with the idea that there are plenty of men who are capable of making you laugh, sharing your values and melting your heart, and you’re going to have fun with several of them until you find one worthy of your commitment.

8. FORGETTING YOUR MANNERS

We can’t imagine this is something you’d ever do, but a little reminder never hurts: Say thank you.

FROGGY'S INSIGHT:

some of the texts from the original article were omitted so please click on the link given above.

sometimes we need not to force ourselves to look for the right person for us. even us guys could take these as a lesson in looking for our Ms. Perfect. we need not to make any desperate acts just to suffice ourselves in useless dreams and stupid things like we know who is the right person or our so-called soul mate, or trying to find a new love from a previous end up. sometimes it even leads us to forget who we are and gives minimal importance to ourselves.

but most of all, feel the real love to the right person in the right time. no need to hurry all we have to do is wait but don't stay lazy and wait for a cupid to shot you an arrow, somehow do some move, and who knows, this person is just around the corner.